A Woman Gets Spanked

By The Strict Gentleman

April 26, 2021

The evaluation of pain in a the body of a female that is developing

When girls are spanked prior to puberty they experience the same pain as a child of either gender would.

However when the change of the female body takes place and the menstrual cycle begins, the female response to pain takes on a different effect. If the spanking of a female continues past the onset of her sexuality, the pain becomes pleasure. There is an intense connection between pleasure and pain. If this should happen the need for the female to be spanked will continue for rest of her life. This connection is stronger than any social addiction. Many females have stated when they were spanked by a guardian of either gender as teenagers they experienced "a strange warmth." There are many reasons for this both psychological and physical. I will deal with the physical at this point.

The physical is when the bottom feels the pain and the blood flows into that area and this is closely connected to the blood flowing to the vaginal area as well. This brings about the wetness of the arousal. The vaginal wetness commonly takes place as a result of the spanking. This might be very embarrassing for the female being spanked but if this has been going on since her teen years she has no more control of the vaginal wetness than a baby wetting its diaper. The pain from the spanking and sexual stimulation in the female genitals are closely intertwined.

Naked and vulnerable

This concept in being connected to spanking varies greatly with the lady and how she feels about her body and being exposed to male eyes. There are two mindsets here:

A: Some women want the spanking only to be given on the bare bottom as that brings them back to childhood memories when they were under the care of a stern but caring father. Most of these women are ones that are under high stress jobs, and in demanding and forceful leadership positions, longing to go back on a trip down memory lane. At that point they want nothing more than to be over the knee of a fatherly image much like she was as a little girl when the only thing she had to fear was a bare bottom trip over dad’s knee. Most of these do not want fully naked spankings as that might be more sensual and they are seeking only the discipline spanking a father would give his daughter.

B. Some females do not want that childhood mind set. They have the feeling of "My emotions are out of control and I need a release. I want to lose all control." The best way to gain full control of a female is for the male to remove the security her clothing. Fully naked spanking, even though they might seem to be sensuous, it adds to the feeling of shame and vulnerability. This is very true with a lady that has a complex over a male seeing her naked body. One thing in the discipline spanking aspect is the male is to always be fully clothed. No spanking should be given with both spanker and spankee being in the nude. The disciplinarian being fully clothed and the spankee being fully naked defines the roles. This definition should never be tampered with. The concept is to shame the lady in need of discipline. She must feel that she does not deserve the modesty of clothing given her misdeeds until she has been punished for them. Also a fully naked spanking makes the lady feel much more vulnerable. She feels very much at the mercy of the disciplinarian. Also she feels that he can do whatever he wants to her body and there is no escape. These are very important concepts in the aspect of female discipline in order for it to be effective. A fully naked spanking for a female by a male is much more emotionally intense than it would be in the aspect of female to female in as much as she is exposed to male eyes and it is not the same

Her thoughts.

Your behavior as a gentleman and a top.

The concept of male/female discipline spanking is based on trust. You must trust the individual that you are allowing to discipline you and vice versa. Therefore there should be constant verbal communication between the top and the bottom. Mouth gags should never be used in a true discipline relationship. A man should not allow a woman to top from the bottom but he must also be sensitive to her needs and feelings when he is in control. After the spanking and subsequent punishment (i.e. corner time) are over there needs be a time when both parties share their thoughts and feelings about the punishment. The male dominant should make the final decision but should always be sensitive to the needs of the female and her respectful input.

A man should never use discipline spanking as sexual foreplay. The two must be separate. However in the aftermath of the punishment there should be a time of aftercare and re-bonding, and if that includes sex that should be determined how the two feel about each other in the context of the relationship.

A male top spanking for punishment or spanking for intimacy.

The difference.

I have always spanked for either discipline or maintenance. However as I stated above there should always be a time of re-bonding between the man and the woman if they are in an intimate relationship. This can of course lead to sexual intercourse in the aftercare. However if that is the case, the sexual intercourse would signify his control over her and her body in the wake of discipline. A woman, after she is punished, is aroused and needy and she needs to have her body taken to meet that need as well as affirmation of his control over her. It is like "I stepped out of line and I have been punished. When you take my body it confirms my body is yours and I am back under your control."

How does a man keep himself from becoming aroused when the woman is over his knee.

The first thing a male disciplinarian must have is control over his emotions. If he is not in control over his emotions, how can he control her? She must know he is serious about her discipline and not using it as foreplay. Even if he is hard and she feels it he must not act on it. He must stay focused on her need for discipline or he is not being fair to her. A man can control his emotions and his arousal in ways a woman cannot. If a man is raised in a home with a stern male image he is taught to control his emotions and impulses. This is a where many men in our day is falling short. A woman can be wet from the spanking as I have always stated, as an involuntary reaction but a man must control his. A man must stay focused on her short comings and her need regardless of how sexually arousing her cute, squirming, bouncing, bottom might be when she it OTK.